Now this seems like a great way to say goodbye to a beloved!!!

I really hate funerals and people make you feel so guilty if you remember a funny incident about the person...

I’m not sure if any of my family and friends will actually abandon tradition to honor my wishes, but when i die, i definitely want to have ball thrown in my remembrance!!!

Asmita that is because people would be in a very sombre mood and it is quite natural for them to get offended even at the mention of something funny about the dead person. It is understandable but neither correct nor wrong.. By the way when Heath Ledger’s ashes were scattered in the sea, friends and family had a mini party along the beach.. Though they were all heartbroken.. I think it is kind of sweet